How to tell is he interested into You?

You meet someone you interested. You have been going out together for a while. You both seem comfortable and enjoy your conversation. However, no sign of him taking into another level of relationship? So is he interested into you or just treat you as friends?

Here are some tips by from Greg Hartley, former Army Special Forces interrogator and author of I Can Read You Like a Book: How to Spot the Messages and Emotions People Are Really Sending With Their Body Language.

Signs He's Into You........

1) He closes the distance
“First and foremost, moving in closer indicates a desire for more intimate contact,” Hartley says. So if a man you’re talking to at a party inches a little closer as you talk you know he wants to get to know you better and not as a friend.

2) He speaks softly
When a man talks in a quieter voice, it’s an excellent sign. Hartley explains, "He’s indicating that what he’s saying is for your ears only,” he says. If you want to let that soft-talker know you feel the same way, respond in kind, which should quickly turn those sparks into an all-out fire.

3) He rounds his posture
Hypermasculine body language (think: swaggering walk, standing tall with shoulders back and chin up, etc.) serves to attract women from a distance. But when a guy is talking close-up with a woman he likes, he will soften, or “round” his body language, Hartley notes. If your guy’s squared shoulders cave in when he’s chatting with you, he’s indicating that he feels comfortable and secure in your presence.

4) He talks slowly
Men typically talk more slowly and softly when they are attracted to someone, Hartley explains. Of course, if he knocked back a few gigante lattes on a first date, he may be too wired (and nervous) to sound like Barry White, but give it time: If his speech starts to make you feel sleepy, he’s a goner.

5) He can’t take his eyes off you (in a good way)
So his eyes are locked on yours? As long as it isn’t a psycho stare, but rather a lingering, heavy-lidded, “Wow, you’re amazing” gaze, that guy is digging you big-time, Harley says.

Hope those tips help. Happy Dating!

Count Down to Our Wedding

Another 26 days to our Wedding.

These few days, we stayed up until very late to get most of the things finalized due to the 12-hour different between us. This is because I am currently in USA, and A is in Singapore, so we really need a lot of patient and compromise with each other when arranging those details preparation of our coming wedding.

We also talked about a lot about how to get the sisters and brothers together before our wedding day to give briefing to everyone, which I also will be participating through webcam. We finally found our wedding car booked. It is SAAB, brand new car. We are lucky.

We also booked buffet catering for lunch. There are few good catering. We choosed Rasel Food Catering. They are efficient, once we submitted our request, the customer service called the next day to confirm and also give us some suggestion on the menu. Their price is reasonable and the food is nice (my previous company also keep them as one of the favor catering for company function).

We also finalized our guest list and decided to give our honored guests a reminder call two weeks before our wedding. This is just to make sure no sudden absent that we didn't know about. Other things we discuss like songs for the march-in, make sure the photo montage are in process, keep in touch with the hotel coordinator to arrange a day (two weeks before our wedding) to finalize the dinner details.

Never ever think that there are still so much things need to finalize. Hopefully things go as what we planned. Each day passed with increasing excitement.

Any September bride out there?