You meet someone you interested. You have been going out together for a while. You both seem comfortable and enjoy your conversation. However, no sign of him taking into another level of relationship? So is he interested into you or just treat you as friends?
Here are some tips by from Greg Hartley, former Army Special Forces interrogator and author of I Can Read You Like a Book: How to Spot the Messages and Emotions People Are Really Sending With Their Body Language.
Signs He's Into You........1) He closes the distance
“First and foremost, moving in closer indicates a desire for more intimate contact,” Hartley says. So if a man you’re talking to at a party inches a little closer as you talk you know he wants to get to know you better and not as a friend.
2) He speaks softly
When a man talks in a quieter voice, it’s an excellent sign. Hartley explains, "He’s indicating that what he’s saying is for your ears only,” he says. If you want to let that soft-talker know you feel the same way, respond in kind, which should quickly turn those sparks into an all-out fire.
3) He rounds his posture
Hypermasculine body language (think: swaggering walk, standing tall with shoulders back and chin up, etc.) serves to attract women from a distance. But when a guy is talking close-up with a woman he likes, he will soften, or “round” his body language, Hartley notes. If your guy’s squared shoulders cave in when he’s chatting with you, he’s indicating that he feels comfortable and secure in your presence.
4) He talks slowly
Men typically talk more slowly and softly when they are attracted to someone, Hartley explains. Of course, if he knocked back a few gigante lattes on a first date, he may be too wired (and nervous) to sound like Barry White, but give it time: If his speech starts to make you feel sleepy, he’s a goner.
5) He can’t take his eyes off you (in a good way)
So his eyes are locked on yours? As long as it isn’t a psycho stare, but rather a lingering, heavy-lidded, “Wow, you’re amazing” gaze, that guy is digging you big-time, Harley says.
Hope those tips help. Happy Dating!